Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl Full Book now available to download
It’s time to stop wondering what it is that you’re doing wrong or could do differently, and accept that it’s not about you!
Mr Unavailable always has obstacles that get in the way of him being present and accountable and when he runs out of obstacles to blame, it turns to you.
These elusive, emotionally unavailable men are the most popular men to date simply because women rarely recognise the dangers of being with him as he often exhibits ‘nice’ qualities. Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl by NML is the follow up to Book One version that she released that revealed what’s really going on with this ambivalent, ambiguous, character, providing you with in-depth information about how he operates and why he behaves as he does.
The updated book with an additional 200 pages now not only explains him in the detail that women everywhere have been looking for, but now explains how she falls in with his behaviour, what drives her, and the different roles she assumes whilst pursuing Mr Unavailable, from being a Yo-Yo Girl, to the Other Woman, to the Flogger, and the Over-Giver. If you’ve loved an emotionally unavailable man, you’re in there and you’ll finally get some answers and realise that you are not alone.
Here’s what you’ll learn when you buy and download Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl:
Understand why our attraction to emotionally unavailable men is tied up in the negative things that we believe about ourselves, love, and relationships. We tend to choose men that reflect these negatives.
Learn about yourself, the Fallback Girl; that woman that Mr Unavailable relies on to massage his ego and cater to his needs whilst managing down her expectations and contributing little or nothing into the relationship. Meet the Yo-Yo Girl, the Other Woman, the Flogger, the Renovator and Florence Nightingale, the Over-Givers, and Miss Independent/Miss Self-Sufficient.
Discover the most common relationship situations such as him being attached, seperated, long distance or hooked on his ex, that are the hallmark of the emotionally unavailable man and learn to recognise key signs that you’re with him.
Find out exactly what is making Mr Unavailable tick from blowing hot and cold, to using you for sex, and refusing to recognise his poor behaviour, and learn why issues such as poor emotional schooling and an over inflated ego will be keeping him the way he is. Discover exactly how he manages down your expectations and even manipulates you into doing exactly what he wants.
Find out how you tie in with emotionally unavailable men by allowing them to turn the tables around you causing you to become ‘the pursuer’ and refusing to listen because you’re like a ‘disgruntled customer’, plus many more behaviours that are in sync with all of his behaviours.
Learn what your motivations are for being in relationships with Mr Unavailable and find out how to break your pattern by choosing you and seeing actions for exactly what they are.
Most importantly, you’ll learn that it’s not about you per se, and that these issues were there long before you came on the scene, they are there now, and they’ll be there long after you’re gone.
This is about taking control of yourself and your relationship choices so that you can learn to stop deriving your value from the relationships that you have with these men and get happy.
Take the focus off him and put it back to you because he is not going to change!
How do you know if you need to read this?
Have a regular habit of being with attached or married guys?
Long-term relationships that never go anywhere?
Are your relationships filled with ambiguity and drama?
Drawn to relationships with little or no hope of commitment?
Confused by men that blow hot and cold?
Been an accidental booty call or gone from ‘girlfriend’ to screw buddy?
Keep talking about the man he was in the beginning?
Are you hoping that your guy will change?
Can’t break up, won’t break up, either because you can’t let go or he keeps coming back?
Wondering why he doesn’t call, or why he only communicates with you via text or email?
Tired of being with the same man, different package?
Do you believe that it’s only his issues that stand between you and your happiness?
“NML, I bought your book last week, and just couldn’t stop reading it. IT WAS GREAT!! Half the time I was sitting there saying “Oh my God that’s me, and that’s him!!!” It was everything that I am going through and everything I am.
I think that somewhere deep down inside we know that this IS what our relationship is and who we are, it’s just hard to believe that WE could have fallen into such a disasterous pattern and choice in life….The book has opened my eyes to a lot of things, probably things that I already knew, but its the comfort of hearing it and reading it from someone elses perspective that has made me realise….ITS REAL, and not only is it real but, I am not alone….I am grateful for this site and for the books that you have and are going to put out and can’t wait to ready the next 2. I am getting a little stronger everyday, and hopefully will come to my senses soon. Thanks for all and please hurry with your next book!! GREAT JOB!!! xoxoxo” Danielle
Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl: Book One is filled with in-depth advice and explanations, my own experiences, reader comments, tips, and exercises.
This is the book to read if you want to be enlightened about these men so that you can stop making excuses for your continued investment into the relationship, break your pattern, and build self-awareness to improve your self-esteem so that you can encourage healthier relationships.
“I came across your site after a night of prowling the internet looking for advice to decode the behaviour of the guy I thought I was dating. You were the first person to put a title on my predicament ‘Mr Unavailable.’
It took you, a complete stranger, and the stories of other women around the world to make me realize that I was attracting selfish men who were unwilling to offer their full selves to me. But most importantly, I realized that the common denominator was me and that I had to change my behavior and outlook before I could expect to attract Mr. Available.” Carver-27-Chicago
Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl is the result of sharing my insights about emotional unavailability on both Baggage Reclaim and the specifically created Mr Unavailable Guide. The first part of the book focuses on him because due to the dysfunctional dynamics between Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl, knowledge about who he is and how and why he behaves as he does is key, otherwise you’ll keep believing that he’s just going through an extended ‘phase’…
The middle part of the book explains the Fallback Girl and how she ties in so well with Mr Unavailable, falling in sync with his behaviour by helping him avoid responsibility by taking up the mantle with the pursuit and repeatedly making excuses for him, so that she can stay invested.
The third part focuses on healing and moving on, with empowering messages to help you build the strength to make changes.
If you have ever been involved with an emotionally unavailable man and have felt like tearing your hair in frustration at this enigma, this book is for you. You are not alone. Really!
Buy and download now - £12.50/approx $24
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Mr Unavailable and The Fallback Girl: Book One is available for instant download. It’s currently £12.50 (normally £15) which is approx $24.
Are you a blogger? Email me at nml [@] baggagereclaim.co.uk for a free review copy.
